A story about two grannies in the oldest living city of the world that gives you another, rather feisty, side to the oft-told story of Indian women. At an age when most women would resign to a retired life with a sigh, this duo took up entrepreneurship and proved their mettle with gusto. Banaras is no longer a city where old women go to just breathe their last, it is a city where they go to live to their fullest potential, thanks to history rewritten by role models like Asha and Aruna!
L et me share about my visit to Banaras last year which would have been ordinary, if I had stayed anywhere else. Anywhere but at Granny’s Inn, that had the caring and loving grannies lording over the house. That homely feel and the reception given to the guests give the place a magical aura of relaxed, comfortable well-being.
A visitor to Banaras goes there to immerse oneself in the glorious traditions of Banaras – the Ghats of Ganga which witness both the rituals for the living and the dead; the majestic temples dedicated to Shiva and then the noise, food and chaos that exist even as India moves ahead. One of the best ways to explore the layers of this city is to make a long visit and take the time to explore not only the obvious places but the pulse of the city – its tea chaupals, its chaat shops, its street food and its uniquely Indian ethos.
This requires one to have a great base and a good guide, so one can experience the subtle nuances and become an insider. While luxury hotels can provide one with a comfortable stay and a predictable ambience, the best experience, in my view, comes from staying as a house guest with a local family.
This granny duo – Asha and Aruna are fiery sisters, who in the autumn of their lives, have turned entrepreneurs. With love, hard work and large hearts, they have managed to convert an old family house into the No.2 B&B of Banaras (as per Tripadvisor). The home-stay has a limited number of rooms but has unlimited generosity to give guests time and attention to share stories, experiences, suggest options and discuss the day.
At an age where most of the people, let alone women, hang up their boots; their days are bustling with activities. They may not have studied leadership or entrepreneurship but they excel in it in their own comely way. The place speaks of warmth from its every nook and corner. It reminds you of visits to your own grandma’s place as a child. It has a large family kitchen and guests are encouraged to visit it. WiFi service is also on offer, for the email and social media junkies, but it is the old world charm, so remote and unattainable these days that wins your heart.
“The story of Granny’s Inn is one of hope, happiness, warmth and wisdom.”
It needs to be shared and seeded in many more Indian cities. The elderly in our society don’t need an old age home; what they really need is an opportunity to lead a second spring in their lives – to explore and enjoy creativity, community & compassion. In case you are a senior, or know of someone who would like to rewrite their life’s story in a fun and enriching way, connect with the grannies at namastey@grannysinn.in
